Not so long ago I overheard some guys talking about  cars. Supposedly certain cars are pussy openers… First thought was: I like Aston Martins, old Jaguars and old Maserati’s, but none of them would make me want to spread my legs for the guy who is driving them. Okay, Daniel Craig would be difficult to resist, but not because he is driving a pretty car. He could drive an old truck, wearing some torn up jeans and an old t-shirt and would still be sexy enough to make me want to surrender myself to him.

It made me wonder what kind of women do ‘open their pussies’ because of what car the man is driving, or what suit he is wearing, what job he has or how much money he carries around in his wallet. Or more specific, what their motive is. I have read often enough that women find status, money, power sexy. I would like to know why. All I can think of, is because it makes the woman feel good about herself, because she gets media attention, because he buys her expensive presents or because she can buy anything she wants. It is some sort of self-love, it has nothing to do with him.

Do you guys really want that? Don’t you want a woman to have the hots for you because of you, who you are?

Okay, by using those assets mentioned above you can probably get a woman who is otherwise “out of your reach”. I find it a bit pathetic, but hey, I am not a guy and I am not the kind of woman who might be out of someone’s reach, so I can’t say much about it. I just know that for me to spread my legs, I ‘only’ need humour, charm, some intelligence, kindness and the element of surprise. And he has to smell just right 🙂