So… what do I have for you today: a very informative article called “The Gentleman’s Guide To Make Her Come Without Using Your Dick” on Adequate Man (love that name!). I have already written an article about the fact that women come a lot less than men and that most women can’t orgasm with penis-thrusting-in-vagina only. In this article the author even states it is only about 7% of women who can climax regularly like this. As you know I do not like to blame men only for the orgasm gap, but it has to be said that many men either don’t care to make her come or don’t come up with the idea to do some research on the female orgasm so that they can learn how to do so.

If you are interested and motivated to have your woman feel like she’s been shot into space, read it. And very important: give up on the idea that your have to do it with your dick! It is not about with what a woman gets an orgasm, it’s that she is getting an orgasm. Use your hands, your mouth, toys, whatever she enjoys.

Speaking of using your mouth… I do not like the phrase eating pussy. The image I get when I hear this does not want to make me drop my undies and have someone go for it. Something like cookie monster between my legs. I’d rather call it the way it is: licking pussy. Anyway, comic artist Erica Moen has made a almost wonderful visual guide on how to orally please pussy in a way that cunnilingus gets to be FUNnilingus. I write ‘almost’ wonderful because I just discovered the naked man in the comic has no penis! I guess/hope Moen has a good reason for it, but it does look weird…